Nice guys usually finish last. Treat her right, and she'll dump you for some jerk who treats her wrong. Offer her respect and be a gentlemen, and she'll think of you as an older brother, not as a lover.
But all is not lost. There is a secret for being a nice guy and still being able to attract women. In this article I will give you specific strategies you can use to turn up attraction without turning off your values.
In order to make women attracted to us, we must understand what causes their attraction. Think about the bad boy she chose over you. Chances are he had one or all of these qualities: He was spontaneous, intriguing, and unpredictable. One minute he'd smile at her and then next minute he'd insult her. He didn't seek for her approval, because he didn't need it. He was too busy living life by his rules.
Women find these qualities very attractive. Most nice guys aren't intriguing at all. Where's the drama in being nice? And as far as predictably goes... there is none. Girl does something you like and being a nice guy, you reward her for it. Boring. Are you beginning to see why women like bad buys over nice guys?
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